My uncle had an Irish setter and a tabby cat. They
got along like any brother and sister, and they played together
good-naturedly, most of the time. The dog, being the younger, was the
more rambunctious one, but when he got a bit out of hand, the cat's
hissing made him flee with limp ears and sagging tail.
Unfortunately, not all households are as lucky. Especially, when a new pet is introduced, the peace may go out the window.
Most
of the time, discord happens because the territorial tenure of the
first pet is threatened. In addition, a secondary setback can arise
from the refusal of sharing the attention and love of the master.
The
same negative feelings for the new pet may be true for the new baby,
too. Although most animals are protective toward the baby, some may
approach the infant with a murderous mind-set. After all, a baby gets a
lot of attention, more than the pets are willing to share.
During
the era when we had our children, the common sense advice was to get
the babies first and then the pets. That is what we did, and no
problems emerged; however, this is not always possible.
In the
case of a new baby, before bringing the baby home from the hospital, it
is a good idea to give a baby blanket or articles of clothing that the
baby has used to the pets to let your pets get used to the baby's
smell. Most of the time, this will be enough.
Even then, it is
common sense to keep a vigilant eye when the baby and the pets are in
the same room. When you are carrying the baby, make sure to talk to the
pets and pay attention to them, giving them treats and petting them if
you can. Although your pets' approach is love and acceptance of the
baby, do not leave them alone together. It is better to be safe than
sorry.
When you are bringing a new pet to a household where there
are other pets, introduce the new pet to the other pets slowly, if
possible in a neutral territory like a park, a friend's backyard etc.
In addition, before bringing them together in the same space, let each
pet become used to the other's smell. To achieve this, you might wipe
the new pet with a damp cloth and use the same cloth on the older pets
or let them play with a pillow that the new pet has sat on.
In
the beginning, it may be wise to keep the pets in two adjacent rooms
for a short while to let them get used to each other's smells and
sounds. Still, the acceptance of the new pet may not happen right away.
Eventually,
taking the animals together for a car ride or a walk in the
neighborhood and being patient and spending equal time and attention
with them will work. In the meantime, a little bit of growling and
hissing may not mean much but could be the beginning of communication
between the pets.
In any case, keep your calm. If you are
nervous, the animals will sense it and will become more agitated. If
your pets have stopped listening to your commands, they may be needing
a booster course in obedience training, supposing they have been
trained in the first place.
If you find yourself in the middle of
a physical fight between the animals, do not get in the middle of their
fight since you might get hurt. Instead, use a water gun and strict
commands, and always remember that you are the master and the leader of
their pack.
Most importantly, do not neglect to reward positive behavior. The promise of a treat may stop any animosity.
