Owning a new kitten is just about the most exciting
time of your family life. Those first few weeks are something special
which will live long in your minds. It’s also a great chance to involve
your children in learning how to take care of their new pet. It can
become a really meaningful bonding time for the entire family. What
better way to introduce children to new responsibilities where they
learn to become accountable for the smallest member of the family.
children can learn to become more reliable and as well, they will
appreciate the satisfaction that comes with the added responsibility.
Getting Your Kids Involved in Caring For Your Cats And Kittens
It’s
always a good starting point to involve the kids in the selection and
naming of your new cat. Just as important is making sure your children
understand the range of caring activities that will be involved and to
emphasize that they will be responsible, along with the rest of the
family, for a living creature not a toy that can be put away. It is a
whole new ball game.
Now, it’s not necessarily a difficult task
to care for your pet if you really love them. Let’s face it, who
doesn’t love their cat? I’ve seen people who say they hate cats simply
melt after they’ve spent a few days with our family and go on to buy
one for themselves. What I’m saying here is that although the enjoyment
you will get from your kitty will have to be balance against the daily
tasks of feeding, cleaning up the bowls, refreshing the water and the
medical concerns like fleas, heartworm and general grooming and
cleaning up cat hair. But, when all is said and done the time you have
to allocate to these matters pales into insignificance when you
experience the ultimate enjoyment of watching kitty at play and
sleeping soundly on your lap.
I have found that kids really
respond to the responsibilities when tasks are allocated equally among
family members wherever possible. This ensures that tasks are seen as a
family responsibility and can be a great learning experience and
contribute to the children coming to understand that life’s pleasures
are balanced with responsibilities and that is the way life works. If
you concentrate only on the jobs that need to be done or leave the
“dirty” tasks to only one family member, then it could lead to
resentment and then everyone, including kitty, will lose out. Having a
balanced approach to pet ownership will have life long benefits when
you learn to enjoy your cat and take care of them with love. It’s a
life lesson we can all benefit from.